Answer a few questions
Nine quick questions, two minutes, no clinical forms. Amendi maps how far the distance has gone, what you're starving for, and where your evenings actually have a spare minute. Then it builds a 12-week protocol around that — not a generic tip feed.
One mission, with the mechanism attached
Every mission is unilateral — your partner never needs to participate, agree, or even notice. And every one carries its "why": what it does to stress hormones, attachment responses, and the invisible bids that hold couples together. You're running a protocol, not following advice.
Never more than a minute
Longer rituals arrive late, labelled, and optional.
Skipping is never punished
Miss three and we ask if the time is wrong — not you.
Today's mission fits today
One tap tells Amendi what kind of day it is. After a fight, warmth reads as pressure — so the app switches to a pool of de-escalation missions and freezes touch entirely.
Normal day
The main protocol, at your current intensity ceiling.
We had a fight
De-escalation only. No touch missions at all. Nothing that reads as a demand.
Apart today
Words and preparation — a text that needs no reply.
Good day
One step braver — if the trend says you're ready.
Tell it how it landed. Tomorrow adjusts.
If a mission backfired, the next three days go quieter — lower intensity, self-focused, touch paused. Three good ones in a row and the ceiling lifts by one. The program follows your relationship's actual temperature, not a calendar.
"I did it and nothing happened" is data about the relationship. "I didn't do it" is data about the habit. Amendi never confuses the two.
Twelve weeks, in a deliberate order
Warmth first, conversations much later. Nothing in the first three weeks asks you to talk about the relationship at all.
Lower the background stress. Zero relationship talks.
Learn their current world again. Catch bids.
Stop conducting their storms.
Tip the balance toward warmth.
Deep load-sharing. First rituals.
Weekly rituals, monthly check-in.
7-day free trial. No partner login. Nothing to announce.